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He Still Hasnt Popped the Question. Should You Give Him an Ultimatum?
   
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Youve been dating the man forever, and he has yet to cough up
a ring. You spend every single weekend with him. You endure his
flatulent buddies from college. You put up with his lunatic
mother. You alternate spending holidays with his family and
yours, spending handsome sums on gifts for his nieces and
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Occasionally you even do his laundry.
Should you give him an ultimatum? Doesnt he owe it to you to
marry you after all youve done for him?
No.
After all, it was you who decided to endure people you dont
like. It was your idea to cozy up to his nieces and nephews to
show him how much you love children. You cooked and baked and
did his laundry to prove that youre superior wife material. All
this in the hopes of winning the ultimate prize package: The
ring! The dress! The 7-day/6-night trip to the romantic
destination of your choice!
And all he ever does is take you for granted.
Of course he takes you for granted. You dont have a life of
your own. Your goal in life is to get married, youre pinning
your hopes on him, and he knows it. Put yourself in his place:
Wouldnt you take you for granted?
If you truly love him (and consider this carefully; do you love
him, or do you love the idea of getting married?), dont give
him an ultimatum. Its never smart to give any man an ultimatum.
Ask yourself: Do you really want to marry a guy you had to
strong arm? Dont you deserve better?
Ask yourself what marriage to an ambivalent husband might be
like. If the guy takes you for granted now, how bad will he be
in five years when youve given birth to children who scribble
on the kitchen wall, and he remains slumped on the couch while
you scurry to scrub it off? How bad will he be in 10 years when,
on top of cooking, cleaning, and laundry to do, you still have
homework to supervise and Halloween costumes to make?
Stop yourself now. Otherwise, one day sooner than you think, you
will find yourself among the legions of women who complain that
their husbands never do a damn thing around the house, and
youll have nobody to blame but yourself.
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So, take a step back. Decide what you really want from life.
Determine whether this particular man is the right companion for
the trip. Cease spending all your free time with him. Replace a
bad habit with a good one by taking a class, signing up for
yoga, or going away for the occasional weekend with the friends
youve been neglecting since you hooked up with Whats-His-Name.
In other words, dont be so available.
Fill your time with opportunities to meet new people. Get to
know yourself better (youre worth getting to know). By all
means, hang out with the guy every now and then but limit time
with his family. Resist all inclinations to wife and mother
him. Let him bake you a cake for a change.
Will he come to his senses? Will he fall on both knees and make
all your Cinderella fantasies come true?
Well, here are three possibilities: 1) He wont miss you all
that much, freeing you to find happiness elsewhere; 2) Youll
realize you dont miss him all that much and hold out for a man
wholl love you as much as you love him; or 3) Hell ask you to
marry him, and youll tell him yes or no, confident that youre
making the right choice for your own future happiness.
Keep in mind that if you say yes, the guys obnoxious college
buddies and lunatic mother are part of the package. If youre
clever, you may get away with scaling back on his nieces and
nephews gifts a bit. How much baking, cooking, and laundry you
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About the author:
Terry Hernon MacDonald is the author of "How to Attract and
Marry the Man of Your Dreams" and the host of "Romance Talk with
Terry" on http://www.healthylife.net radio. Visit her website at
http://www.marrysmart.com .